Wednesday, February 5, 2014
"My first time with a black guy was in college during a beer drinking game. I "lost" and had to go in the closet with a cute black guy. I acted like I was reluctant but I couldn't wait to get in there. Once we got in the closet, he pulled me close and kissed me! I was floating on air!! His hands were all over me and I did not care!! He had my bra undone and my pants down before I even realized it. I was soaking wet!!"
Then there is Queen of Spades Kay, our QofS of the month for February 2014. She is a soccer mom who discovered her dark secret while literally "in the closet." There, behind a closed door, her thin, nubile white body was first taken in the grasp of a young, handsome African American man.
And now dear readers, you will get to meet the woman who walked out of the closet that night, and went on to wear the crown as Queen of Spades for the Month of February 2014. However given that she is a professional woman with a husband and family, she will not be coming out of the closet to meet you...rather she will be taking you into the closet to meet her.
Fortunately though, ounce inside you will find just enough light for you to see that when inside the closet....
Oh, and before her interview begins, as Queen Kay will reign over this year's Valentines Day she would like you to know that for several of the black men in her community...
|"Every Kiss begins with Kay"|
QK: Your welcome, it is an honor to be so crowned.
QSD: First could you tell us at what age or time in your life did you realize that you were attracted to black men and why did you feel yourself drawn toward exploring intimacy with a black man?
QK: I probably realized that I was attracted to black men in my teens but never really had the opportunity to act on it. I grew up in the suburbs where it was mostly white. Plus, I was shy and too scared/nervous at that time in my life to act on it as I didn't really see any interracial dating going on. So I just kind of pushed those feelings down inside and rationalized it as just a phase I was going through.
closet with a cute black guy. I acted like I was reluctant and even though my heart was beating like crazy, I couldn't wait to get in there. Once we got in the closet, he pulled me close and kissed me! I was floating on air!! His hands were all over me and I did not care!!
He had my bra undone and my pants down before I even realized it. I was soaking wet!! He then grabbed my hand and put it in his pants. I could not believe how big he was! I had been with different guys since I was 15 but I never felt a cock as big as that! I pulled it out of his pants and stroked it! Feeling it get harder and longer. I bent over and gave it a lick and that is when they knocked on the closet door. I quickly jumped up, pulled my pants up, and rehooked my bra as they swung open the door. From that point on, I was hooked! Sadly, I had to leave the party soon after because my friend who drove me there had to leave.
QK: Unfortunately, after that first experience I never really had another "opportunity". I was (and still am) shy and I guess I don't give off the vibe that I am into black guys. I am very very rarely hit on or noticed by black men. I had a fun time in college and played with many different guys and even a few girls but no black guys. Once I met my husband, I settled down. I remember saying to myself that I needed to be a "good girl" now. Good wives don't play around. It wasn't until we were married for a few years that I finally confessed to my husband what my biggest (black) fantasies were. I was pleasantly surprised that he was turned on by them and said that he would support me if I wanted to fulfill them. Soon my husband began searching adult dating websites looking for black men for me to be with.
After figuring out what my type of black man, we would filter out the jerks until we found the right guys. I don't just jump in bed with just anyone. In fact, my husband has gotten frustrated with me several times, saying that I was too "picky". Maybe I am but I think I am allowed. That said, my husband has been as supportive and accepting of my "hotwife" activities as he said he would be
|and I love him even more for it!!|
QK: For me, I would have to say it is the size and the taboo of it all! Having soo many black fantasies and now being able to act on them is incredible. Seeing the color contrast as our naked bodies and against each other is such a turn on! I am a size queen and nothing compares to black men (sorry Honey!). Having a black man take control and tell me what to do is another turn on for me! It just makes it even better having my husband there to watch and knowing that he loves watching me play as much as I like playing!
QSD: I take then that you would characterize yourself as submissive to black men?
QK: Oh I am definitely submissive to black men in the bedroom for sure!! Not sure if it evolved to that as I have always been submissive to the guys I play with white or black.
QSD: Do you reserve yourself for black men exclusively or are you open to dating men of other races? I notice too that you have a white husband, how does he fit into the picture?
I guess I would never say never but I am "down with the brown" as they say! I have a white guy whenever I want, it's black men that I crave. As far as my husband goes, he likes to watch me play. As I said, he is very supportive of me. I am the only one that plays so I'm not sure if we are in the "hotwife" or "cuckold" lifestyle...maybe a little of both. He likes to watch me with others but there have been times that he has to stay at home with the kids so I can go play. So does that make him a cuckold? I guess so but either way we are happy. I like it better when he is there watching. I love looking over and seeing how turned on he is watching me play with others.
QSD: What are some of your favorite ways of pleasuring black men and experiencing sexual pleasure from them (i.e. Do you prefer one on one or groups?; what is your favorite way to receive a black man's seed ounce you have brought him to climax?)
QK: I am submissive in the bedroom especially to black men, so I like when they tell me what to do. Of course I love to suck their huge cocks and balls (and even licked their ass). As for receiving their cum,
QSD: In the way of a Queen of Spades Mating Rituals Question, when you are going out to be with a black man or perhaps simply going out and hope to enjoy having the attention of black men looking at you, how do you like to dress to capture their attention? What do you typically have on underneath? Finally, what types of subtle behaviors (if any) do you exhibit to show black men that this very married suburban soccer mom is interested in them and welcomes their advances?
Soccer Mom" with her kids in the mall, don't think that she doesn't like to get a little wild sometimes with a BBC!
|QofS Kay having her lover take a few picture of her to send to her hubby just before they drive off to her lover's house and bed.|
QK: I would love to hook up with Shemar Moore!! He can do whatever he wants to me anytime anyplace!!
QSD: What is your dating status presently and what are your long term goals in the lifestyle of living as a Queen of Spades if you have any?